Concentrate on how you can win and not on how you can make others lose

I do not know about others but yes I use to be always someone who would not know how to concentrate on how to win.

The negative power was too much in me and there was no gap to push good skillful thoughts to learn more about winning or learn more about myself. Reading good books always fills your mind with good thoughts and reminds us always to think positive and win and serve others.

It’s been few months now I have been picking up books on self development and reading them while traveling by bus to work. The books are filled with enriching words that melt your heart and thinking world.

Take for example: often time when we think of doing something, we always start with negative thought. Can I do it? Instead of taking it right inside us and do it saying Yes I can do it. We want to start some business and we ask, This business already exits so this will not work? We excuse ourselves instead of giving it a try.

It was a habit for me, always from my mouth the word that came when wanted to do something is, I am thinking of doing. I was pointed by my wife and reminded that I will keep thinking if I say, I am thinking of So I have been trying to stop that word and replacing with I want to do. And this replacement is giving me progress in life. Try out if you want to see the magic of I want to do instead of I am thinking of doing.

Let’s get back to the point of concentrating on how we can win instead of making others lose. When worry about how to make other lose we lose our time in finding out the way on how to win. It’s better we learn more about winning, its more profitable to put our mind thinking on how to make our life better without looking and worrying on who is doing what or who is saying what about us or who is watching us.

Back in Pune when I was struggling with my carrier, I had to find part-time job to get some money. Part-time jobs were not available in offices so I use to work as counter sales boy keeping one line in my mind, I do not know anyone and no one knows me, because I felt I was graduate and people will laugh at me if they see me working as sales boy in garment shops, so to not to feel anything about it and I needed money I always kept in my mind those words.

Concentrate and work to win.

Put your mind in what you are doing and what you have to do and not on what others are doing.